Falling In and Out of Love

How is it possible to fall in and out of love? How is it possible to love someone one day and not the next? You might say, “they’ve changed they aren’t the same person I met." Or, “they did this or that, that’s why I don’t love them any more." But isn’t true love unconditional? When we put limitations and restrictions on our love, our love then turns into conditional love. Conditional love is driven by our patterns. You could say, “in the beginning of our relationship I felt completely loved and cared for." That is because you and your partner were on your best behavior. You both held your patterns at bay whether you knew it or not. In time, typically 3 months or 3 years, patterns will surface. That isn’t good or bad, it just is. It’s the way of conditional love. Conditional love can be confusing and complicated. Patterns are confusing and complicated. Have you ever tried to figure out your patterns on your own, why you do the things you do over and over?


If you love and care for someone, most people think they should get the same love and caring in return, right? That is conditional love. Unconditional love allows each person to be who they want to be, patterns and all. Unconditional love comes from the Universe. This kind of love is everlasting. If you catch yourself putting conditions on your partner, or if you begin to feel unloved, that is your cue to take an action. Take a moment to connect with the Universe. You can connect with the Universe by communicating with your Guides, or by meditating. When you meditate, or communicate with your Guides, you’ll be going to the source, the Universe, to find true unconditional love. The more you do this the more you will feel unconditionally loved. In time, unconditional love will replace conditional love.


Humans, not the Universe, created relationships. Relationships were created out of the need to be loved. The Universe doesn’t care if you are in a relationship or not.  Humans have a need to be loved, so we seek out a partner. The funny thing is, once you’re in a relationship, you still won’t feel completely loved. Think about it. Within time you may actually feel less loved. This does not mean relationships are bad. Relationships are an amazing thing, especially when you are able to bring unconditional love into them.


How do you fall in and out of love? If your love is conditional it’s an easy thing to do. You can love someone one day and not the next. If you’re tired of repeating the same old pattern, maybe it’s time to take an action. Go to the source, the Universe, to find unconditional love. When you connect with the Universe you will always be loved and cared for no matter what, without conditions. Then if you choose to be in a relationship, perfect. You will have a solid foundation of unconditional love supporting you. 


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